Replace it with i he she

Mother sat me down and told me
"These things happen sometimes"
and i thought why can't I remember?
why can't I know?
Life before this.
Why did it die? Where did it go?
What happens?
Why do we bury it?
Will it be ok?
I have questions!
She tried to answer them the best she could
god bless her soul, she tried to to tell me
but maybe she didn't know
maybe she didn't know what to say
she was a younger woman back then
Death had not touched her yet